It's comforting that the one place that has NO EXPECTATIONS whatsoever about your appearance is the Oncologist's office.
Pajamas - check.
Dirty hair...lucky dog still has hair!
The scent of moth balls or Old Spice - no problem...
Chipped Nail Polish? No manis and pedis due to risk of infection...
Torn Wham Concert T-shirt from the 80's? - I'd wear one in a heartbeat! NO ONE would notice!
The staff is just genuinely happy that you made it to another appointment...Just another day closer to the cure!